Comments on: To be or not to be http://tololy.com/2005/10/20/to-be-or-not-to-be/ Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:15:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU hourly 1 By: Tololy http://tololy.com/2005/10/20/to-be-or-not-to-be/#comment-3007 Tololy Fri, 21 Oct 2005 18:04:00 +0000 http://tololy.com/?p=64#comment-3007 Sinan, I really hope that you think the matter up and inform us, the inhabitants of the box, of what you turn up with. I adore sharing ideas terribly, and I am always ready to learn. Lulu, You make perfect sense. Sinan, I really hope that you think the matter up and inform us, the inhabitants of the box, of what you turn up with.
I adore sharing ideas terribly, and I am always ready to learn.

Lulu,
You make perfect sense.

]]> By: lulu http://tololy.com/2005/10/20/to-be-or-not-to-be/#comment-3006 lulu Fri, 21 Oct 2005 01:27:00 +0000 http://tololy.com/?p=64#comment-3006 Tololy - you have touched upon a topic that constantly nags at me. I see people as just that - people. Not black, not white, not middle eastern, not religious, not aetheist. Labels irk and disturb me, for the simple reason that I myself may prove to be (for purposes of example only) conservative in one situation and completely liberal in another. Observing human behavior, and starting with my own self, it is completely obvious to me that I am multi-faceted and possess many layers of complication to my personality, thought process, and general existence. As does, of course, every human being, since that is what makes us human! We are at some moments humorous and carefree, and at others serious and maybe even threatening. This may change based on a number of internal as well as external factors, so which one is REALLY the truth about who we are? The truth is we are all of our multiple personalities, all of our moods, all of our thoughts, and we should draw empowerment from owning all facets of ourselves. Thanks! Tololy - you have touched upon a topic that constantly nags at me. I see people as just that - people. Not black, not white, not middle eastern, not religious, not aetheist.

Labels irk and disturb me, for the simple reason that I myself may prove to be (for purposes of example only) conservative in one situation and completely liberal in another.
Observing human behavior, and starting with my own self, it is completely obvious to me that I am multi-faceted and possess many layers of complication to my personality, thought process, and general existence. As does, of course, every human being, since that is what makes us human!
We are at some moments humorous and carefree, and at others serious and maybe even threatening. This may change based on a number of internal as well as external factors, so which one is REALLY the truth about who we are? The truth is we are all of our multiple personalities, all of our moods, all of our thoughts, and we should draw empowerment from owning all facets of ourselves.
Thanks!

]]> By: Sinan http://tololy.com/2005/10/20/to-be-or-not-to-be/#comment-3005 Sinan Thu, 20 Oct 2005 17:46:00 +0000 http://tololy.com/?p=64#comment-3005 Interesting post :) Even thought I never quite thought of it this way before, what you said make a lot of sense, but still the idea is not yet clearly developed in my mind. I mean let's consider a mid way, and see if it's just or not... for example having larger classes or clusters, or differentiate between ppl based on what they do rather than how... I am just exploring others views about the whole subject, I gotta think more about it. Interesting post :) Even thought I never quite thought of it this way before, what you said make a lot of sense, but still the idea is not yet clearly developed in my mind. I mean let’s consider a mid way, and see if it’s just or not… for example having larger classes or clusters, or differentiate between ppl based on what they do rather than how… I am just exploring others views about the whole subject, I gotta think more about it.

]]> By: Tololy http://tololy.com/2005/10/20/to-be-or-not-to-be/#comment-3004 Tololy Thu, 20 Oct 2005 13:37:00 +0000 http://tololy.com/?p=64#comment-3004 I understand that,black cats. Indeed the ways one interacts with different people are, at least, as varied as the number of people one gets in contact with. That is not quite the topic of my post, however. I tried to shed some light on what I like to call label sticking, i.e the stratification of people in general groups. It is simple, really. If one has many faces, and if we establish that what truth we know is merely a fraction of the whole picture of truth, then any labels would be inappropriate. Even the one who sticks any such labels is, ideally, not "one". I do not wish to be taken the wrong way, I realise that some people will fail to understand what I am talking about. I understand that,black cats. Indeed the ways one interacts with different people are, at least, as varied as the number of people one gets in contact with.

That is not quite the topic of my post, however. I tried to shed some light on what I like to call label sticking, i.e the stratification of people in general groups.
It is simple, really. If one has many faces, and if we establish that what truth we know is merely a fraction of the whole picture of truth, then any labels would be inappropriate. Even the one who sticks any such labels is, ideally, not “one”.

I do not wish to be taken the wrong way, I realise that some people will fail to understand what I am talking about.

]]> By: Black Cats http://tololy.com/2005/10/20/to-be-or-not-to-be/#comment-3003 Black Cats Thu, 20 Oct 2005 12:14:00 +0000 http://tololy.com/?p=64#comment-3003 yes, <B>you are 100% right</B>... but its our nature to classify peoples... so we can control our reactions and behavior and what we say, what we do... you see as an example, <B>your way in talking with me is not like the way you talk to your best friend</B>... yes, you are 100% right… but its our nature to classify peoples… so we can control our reactions and behavior and what we say, what we do…
you see as an example, your way in talking with me is not like the way you talk to your best friend…

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