Comments on: Big decisions, small decisions

By: Peter S.

Peter S. — Sat, 17 Jun 2006 13:35:27 +0000

No path will be perfect, so whatever choice you make, don’t give into the tendency to romanticize the road not taken later on.

If I was in your place, I would list the pros/cons of each choice. Then I would select the one that offers the most change, because that could provide the most stimulus.

By: Balck Cats

Balck Cats — Sat, 17 Jun 2006 08:09:09 +0000

Tololy, You’ll never walk alone

When you walk through a storm
Hold your head up high
And don’t be afraid of the dark
At the end of the storm
Is a golden sky
And the sweet silver song of a lark

Walk on through the wind
Walk on through the rain
Tho’ your dreams be tossed and blown
Walk on, walk on
With hope in your heart
And you’ll never walk alone
You’ll never walk alone

By: salam

salam — Sat, 17 Jun 2006 08:07:25 +0000

Sometimes logic says one thing,and intuition another..I go with my intuition without regrets!Good luck!

By: Vas

Vas — Sat, 17 Jun 2006 05:31:05 +0000

Peripatos: Aristotle used the covered walkway of the Lyceum, whenever he had a difficult issue to analyze with his students or peers. Walking, thinking, walking, theorizing, and, after that, keeping notes. He ended up with a great collection of books, and also he fought back cholesterol… I liked the fact that you did alike, and you will come up with a wise decision, even if it is no better than the other. Only simplistic ways of thinking invest on absolute false /right patterns.

By: Dave

Dave — Sat, 17 Jun 2006 04:54:21 +0000

This or that, eh? I’d say go with that.

By: Devil's Mind

Devil's Mind — Sat, 17 Jun 2006 00:39:58 +0000

Although at times i would ponder my choices, but in the end whatever choice you make is good, because well: once you make it, there is no go back, so it has to be good! The idea might seem odd, but it if you think about it, it might make sense to you as well!

By: Ola

Ola — Sat, 17 Jun 2006 00:21:45 +0000

The generla rule is:

If it’s not necessary to make a choice, it is necessary NOT to make a choice!

By: Tololy

Tololy — Fri, 16 Jun 2006 19:59:52 +0000

Thank you Beti and Lammoush. I appreciate the support so much!

By: lammoush

lammoush — Fri, 16 Jun 2006 18:12:44 +0000

yes, its a thing we all have 2 go through, and unfortunately more than once throughout our life… this is how it is :)

sometimes it seems people think alot about smaller decisions and go spontaneously about HUGE ones..

i really hope u do something that would give u releif :)

By: Beti

Beti — Fri, 16 Jun 2006 16:24:03 +0000

I’ve been going through this same thing every day lately and it’s torture, I tell you. All the "what ifs" shuffling through the brain. I sincerely hope that both of us end up making choices we’ll be satisfied with…