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Another One Bites the Dust

In Jordan, Wonder Woman on May 11, 2008 at 10:12 am

Horrific news this morning, another woman killed for the sake of a myth called honor:

Criminal Prosecutor Amjad Kurdi on Saturday charged a 23-year-old man with the premeditated murder of his younger married sister for reasons related to family honour, official sources said.

Kurdi also charged the victim’s father, mother and sibling of complicity in premeditated murder in connection with the drowning of the 22-year-old at dawn on Saturday.

The 23-year-old suspect, an electrician who got engaged a week before the murder, then placed his sister’s body in the trunk of the car, drove back to Amman, headed to the Jabal Hussein Police Station and informed officers on duty that he murdered his sister to “cleanse his family’s honour”, the source added.

The victim, who was married almost two weeks before the incident, was returned to her family home on Friday by her husband, who questioned “her fidelity”.

The victim’s family interrogated her and she allegedly told them that “she knew a man but was not involved in an affair with him” so they beat her until she almost fainted, the source told The Jordan Times.

The victim tried to resist and informed her brother that she did nothing wrong, but “he did not listen and killed her,” the source added.

Read the full story here

This is the second woman to be slaughtered in cold blood by a male sibling this week, the 6th since the start of 2008. Nobody knows if the husband’s allegations were accurate, the family never bothered and killed the girl anyway, and now how can we ever be sure what went on?* The woman was married so she must have lost her virginity, and the husband decided to report her “infidelity” after two weeks of marriage. At the sound of the word “honor” the victim’s family was taken by some demonic myth and butchered their own daughter.

Will this killer also walk and be hailed a champion of honor?

*Please note that the woman’s being or not being in an affair of sorts should not have spelled out her death sentence. There is no excuse for murder, and least of all for murder in the name of honor. All justifications for that, real or fabricated, should be made illegal.

  1. Tololy, I’m surprised you bothered asking if the husbands doubts were accurate.
    It’s just not relevant since it wouldn’t give them the right to drown her even if they were.
    The most startling thing is the confidence of the murderer who took the body back to the police station.

  2. Oh yes I agree with you. I didn’t mean it that way though, I meant that they just took the word of the husband to be the ultimate truth and just acted on it. That is not to say that if she indeed was having an affair or whatever that she should be killed. I didn’t mean that at all, I should clarify in the post. Thanks for the remark!

  3. Disgusted to say the least. Took the girl’s family hours to reach a guilty verdict and carry it out. The husband to his credit thought for two weeks before dropping the new wife home. Forensics fresh from school can tell you that the sign of virginity(hymen) can be lost from playing sports or may be what is called elastic that it may remain till child birth. Amazing that the girl’s family did not notice anything out of the ordinary for two weeks, don’t they visit their girls nowadays after marraige, or  don’t they call at least? Could the groom had second thoughts after two weeks of honeymooning and decided that he don’t want to be married after all and to avoid paying costly divorce come up with this charge? May be the brother had a troubling few weeks with his new wife and took his anger somewhere else? strike this stupid honour law , it is a witch hunt.

  4. Another One Bites the Dust

    The above heading is misleading. improper and implies guilty connotations, usually the term is used for someone or sonething that deserves the end result due to own actions, far fom proved in this case.

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